A bit of a therapy session...
Middle right panel: Face it, Dr. Fynn, there are rare moments when she takes a break from lying and speaks very hard, profound truths (at least from what I observed), and I'm pretty sure this is one of them! I heard it's important to be the sort of person you want to love you, and this would go for her too--don't just be what you think a man should be, be what you want her to be... For instance, if you want her to bare her heart to you (like I remember you said when you started withholding Lil' Wes and all that went with him), then show her yours... feel free to do it on your next nightmare...
Last panel: Seriously, though, Cassandra, is that any way to elicit warmth from a guy? I think you ought to take a leaf from that, too, and be warm for him if you want him to keep you warm... Besides, I remember you said you wanted to take care of him, too, so that became part of your vows... I hope you'll be doing that, tonight, perhaps when the nightmares come...
Okay, I have no license, but I've read a lot of articles in regards to that... I understand it varies from person to person, and some women don't want a bleeding heart for a lover, and some men find ice queens exciting, but don't generalize about all of one sex...